The Science of Your Smile: How the Way You Feel About Your Teeth Shapes Your Entire Life

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There’s a moment that happens countless times each day—at the grocery store when someone holds the door, during a video call with colleagues, across the dinner table from someone you love. It’s the moment when a smile either happens naturally or gets suppressed, hidden behind a closed-lip expression or a hand raised to cover your mouth.

That split-second decision, repeated hundreds of times throughout your life, shapes more than you might realize. The relationship you have with your own smile influences your confidence, your connections with others, and even your physical and mental health in ways researchers are only beginning to fully understand.

At Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook, Dr. Jason Schermer, Dr. Andrea Londono-Shishehbor, and the entire team see this reality play out every day. Patients arrive feeling self-conscious about their teeth and leave transformed—not just in how their smile looks, but in how they carry themselves through the world.

Your Brain on Smiling

The act of smiling triggers a fascinating cascade of neurological events. When you smile—even if you don’t particularly feel like it—your brain releases a cocktail of feel-good neurotransmitters including dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin. These chemicals reduce stress, lower heart rate, and create genuine feelings of happiness.

This isn’t just feel-good speculation. Research published in psychological journals has demonstrated that the physical act of smiling can actually improve mood, even when the smile is initially forced. Your brain essentially takes cues from your facial muscles: if you’re smiling, something good must be happening.

But here’s where it gets interesting for people who feel self-conscious about their teeth. When you habitually suppress smiles because you’re embarrassed about how your teeth look, you’re not just hiding your expression from others—you’re depriving your own brain of these mood-boosting chemical signals. The emotional cost of smile suppression accumulates over time, contributing to lower baseline happiness and increased stress.

The Social Ripple Effect

Humans are wired to respond to smiles. From infancy, we’re drawn to smiling faces, and this preference persists throughout life. Studies in social psychology show that people who smile more are perceived as more trustworthy, competent, and likeable. They’re more likely to be hired for jobs, more likely to be approached in social situations, and more likely to build strong personal relationships.

When you hold back your smile, you’re inadvertently sending different signals. Others may perceive you as aloof, unfriendly, or disinterested—impressions that have nothing to do with your actual personality but everything to do with your discomfort about your teeth.

Consider how many meaningful connections never happen because someone didn’t return a smile. Think about the job interview where nerves and self-consciousness created an impression of coldness. Or the potential friendship that never developed because a closed-lip expression seemed unwelcoming.

The team at Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook hears these stories regularly. Patients describe years of avoiding photographs, dreading social events, or feeling like they couldn’t fully express joy because doing so meant revealing teeth they were ashamed of. The isolation that comes from smile suppression is real and significant.

The Confidence Connection

Confidence isn’t just a feeling—it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you feel confident, you take more risks, speak up more often, and pursue opportunities you might otherwise avoid. When you lack confidence, you hold back, play small, and miss chances that could change your life.

Your smile sits at the center of this confidence equation. It’s one of the first things people notice about you and one of the primary ways you express yourself. When you don’t trust your smile, that uncertainty bleeds into everything else.

Mayfield Heights residents who visit Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook often describe a transformation that goes far beyond their teeth. After addressing whatever was holding them back from smiling freely, they report speaking up more at work, feeling more comfortable on dates, enjoying family gatherings more fully, and generally moving through life with less self-consciousness and more presence.

This isn’t about vanity. It’s about removing a barrier that prevents you from showing up as your full self in your own life.

The Physical Toll of Hiding Your Smile

Beyond the psychological impact, chronic smile suppression can manifest physically. People who habitually control their facial expressions to hide their teeth often develop tension in their jaw, face, and neck. Some clench or grind their teeth—a stress response that becomes habitual. Others develop headaches related to facial muscle tension.

There’s also the posture component. When you’re self-conscious about your smile, you may unconsciously angle your face away from others, look down more frequently, or position yourself to avoid direct interaction. Over time, these patterns affect how you hold your entire body.

Dr. Schermer and Dr. Londono-Shishehbor take a whole-person approach to dental care, recognizing that oral health connects to overall wellbeing in complex ways. Sometimes addressing smile confidence resolves physical symptoms patients didn’t even realize were connected.

Breaking the Cycle

If you’ve spent years feeling embarrassed about your teeth, the pattern can feel permanent. You may have convinced yourself that hiding your smile is just “who you are” or that your discomfort is something you simply need to live with.

It isn’t.

The first step toward change is simply recognizing how much your relationship with your smile affects your daily life. Pay attention over the next week to moments when you suppress a smile, cover your mouth, or avoid photographs. Notice how it feels to hold back natural expressions of joy, warmth, or humor.

The second step is understanding that solutions exist. Whatever is causing your smile self-consciousness—whether it’s the color, alignment, spacing, or condition of your teeth—options are available to address it. Modern dentistry offers approaches for virtually every concern, many of them more accessible and comfortable than you might expect.

At Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook, the philosophy is simple: we won’t stop until you’re happy. That’s not just about clinical outcomes—it’s about helping you reach the point where you smile without thinking, laugh without covering your mouth, and show up in photographs without dreading the results.

The Valentine to Yourself

February brings cultural focus to love and relationships, but the most important relationship you have is with yourself. Investing in your smile isn’t superficial or selfish—it’s a form of self-respect that pays dividends in every area of your life.

When you feel good about your smile, you give yourself permission to express joy fully. You connect more easily with others. You project confidence that opens doors. You stop spending mental energy on self-consciousness and redirect it toward actually living your life.

That’s a gift worth giving yourself, regardless of what month it is.

Start the Conversation at Exceptional Smiles

If you’ve been hiding your smile, avoiding the dentist, or simply wondering what options might exist for concerns you’ve lived with for years, the team at Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook welcomes the conversation. Dr. Schermer, Dr. Londono-Shishehbor, and their caring staff create a judgment-free environment where patients of all ages—from tiny toddlers to grandparents—receive personalized attention and honest guidance.

Whether you have dental insurance or not (ask about the VIP Smile Saver Membership), whether you speak English or Spanish (¡Hablamos Español!), and whether your concerns are simple or complex, you deserve to smile freely.

Contact Exceptional Smiles at Landerbrook in Mayfield Heights today at (440) 335-5930 for new patients or (440) 483-1003 for existing patients. Your smile—and everything it makes possible—is waiting.

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